After a year-long battle against plantar fasciitis, it seems that the time has come to retreat, at least temporarily. Training through constant pain day in and day out despite valiant ongoing rehab efforts has brought me to a plateau in my progress and sapped my motivation entirely. There’s no joy left in forcing my way through sessions in the pursuit of mediocre results at best. Of course even the most dedicated athletes aren’t totally amped about every workout, but it’s essential to relish the overall journey. If there’s no love in that anymore, is it really worth doing?
These kinds of questions really got me thinking that there must be something more than a few muscular/strength imbalances at play, something deeper. Why would a case of PF last THIS LONG? And why am I so exhausted every single minute of every goddamn day? Why do I feel like a 90-year-old woman when I go up and down the stairs or climb in and out of bed? I’m so exhausted that I don’t have the energy to do anything – training, work, chores, social plans – literally nothing. Living with a certain level of fatigue is part of being an endurance athlete, so it can be really hard to tell when you’ve crossed the line.
I’ve always thought that I could do anything and everything, all at once. Why choose to be the best at just one thing when you can be the best at all the things? As it turns out, you can only fake it for so long. In high school, I was a straight-A student while running track at a varsity level all four years and crushing extra-curriculars like nobody’s business. Not surprisingly, I also developed an eating disorder along the way. During the transition from high school to college, I realized that I loved running too much to surrender it to something so stupid. I figured out that the more I ate, the more I could run and thus my obsession with endurance sports was born.
After doing a bunch of marathons and random triathlons, I started to train pretty seriously 2011 with the goal of competing professionally someday. I worked hard for a few years while maintaining a full-time job and some semblance of a social life. As a busy, working triathlete, often times it’s the little things that are forgotten. These “little things” – like physical therapy, regular massage, extra sleep, etc. – tend to be the most important for long-term health. By 2015, I had long ignored the warning signs of a nagging knee issue which ultimately resulted in surgery. But even this didn’t slow me down. I used the time to focus on swimming, and I swam every single day (sometimes twice) for 4 months until I could start running and biking again. I came back even stronger and had a few good races in 2015-2016, but I was starting to show signs of breakdown when I developed a bad case of PF at the end of the season.
Knowing when and how to listen to your body is one of the most important skills that an athlete requires, and yet it one that can be the most difficult to master. It’s about not letting your emotions and irrational anxiety get in the way of doing the right thing. Sometimes that means forcing yourself to get your ass out of bed and into the pool at the crack of dawn when you really don’t feel like it, but more often it means forcing yourself to slow down and rest when you’re injured, sick, or run-down. As of this post my training log says that I haven’t taken a day completely off from exercising in 2188 consecutive days, but I’ve been training for long before I kept track. I have never truly taken an off-season in the winter, I just keep on going and going Energizer Bunny-style. So, while endurance racing did initially help me to physically recover from an eating disorder, it also prevented me from learning any real coping mechanisms for whatever triggered it in the first place. In essence, I only know how to feel calm, relaxed, and in control when I’m exercising as much as possible. I’m realizing now that this is not a sustainable way to live.
This is all a very circuitous way of saying that I believe I am struggling with a bit of chronic adrenal fatigue and burnout, and I can’t maintain the stress load that I’ve been carrying for the past decade. This is likely a huge contributor to the constant state of injury as well. I need to take a break and heal. While that sounds easy enough, as a textbook Type A person (as many triathletes are), it can be nearly impossible to just chill the f*ck out every once in a while. A year ago, I moved to a new country, made new friends, basically started a whole new life, and I’ve barely taken a minute to let that soak in. I’ve been head-down on the triathlon path for so long, I can’t remember the last time I took a trip somewhere or did an activity that didn’t revolve around training or racing. I’ll reference one of the most overused movie quotes from Ferris Bueller here because despite being cliche, it’s relevant: “Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” Maybe a fresh outlook on life could help refresh my body too. I’m not giving up completely, I’m just taking time off so I can come back to the sport recharged, healthy, and ready to work.
Admitting all of this makes me feel like a quitter, a failure, and like I am no one if I’m not a triathlete. I feel like I’m not good enough or strong enough if I can’t do it all. Seeing all my friends racing and training via social media has me suffering extreme FOMO and jealousy over their successes. No one ever shares when things aren’t going well, so I feel very alone in my struggle. A few weeks into this decision, I’m having a hard time functioning without a workout structure or goals. In this early stage of withdrawal, my emotions and anxiety are going completely haywire. Sometimes I’ll cry or have a panic attack for no reason whatsoever. I know that I’m driving everyone around me insane, but I need supportive people in my life now more than ever. I can’t NOT exercise, but I don’t know how much/how little to do. I’m terrified of gaining weight, of getting out of shape. I don’t know how long this recovery period will last or where it will take me, and the unknown is a scary place to be. It feels like I’m walking into a long, dark tunnel and I can’t see through to the light at the end of it just yet. Maybe somebody can lend me a flashlight.